When I die*, I hope you'll think of me when you:
- take care of a cat/pet/animal
- heal a piece of your past
- try something new/creative/scary
- grow a platonic relationship
- sit by the ocean
- hug someone deeply
- sleep as much as your body lets you
- work dance/movement into conversation
- experience joy/faith from the smallest things/signs
- laugh freely, maybe especially when it's not quite appropriate
- buck convention
- spend time with yourself
- grieve openly
- live and document your one wild and precious life
- build community and fight the good fight
* I don't plan on dying anytime soon, but I do want to give people who know/love me something to hold onto, and thinking about this ended up clarifying the most important things about me.