Excerpted from TimeOut Magazine:
"I’m a 21-year-old bisexual female, and a very sexual one at that. My best friend is also bisexual, but a guy. I’ve known him since I was 14, and we’ve had an extremely atypical friendship. We were each other’s first fucks at age 15—because we were so close, it was surprisingly not awkward. From then on, we’ve hooked up consistently. We both consider each other as sort of half twin, half lover, which I’m aware could be classified as creepy. We have other friendships and romantic relationships on the side, but there’s a mutual understanding that we are each other’s favorites. I love him to death, and I would put him before anyone. The odd thing is, with men, I’m mainly attracted to very macho types, which is so the opposite of my friend. He is the embodiment of a campy queer; feminine with a high-pitched voice. He is very attractive but in a skinny sort of way. On top of all that, our relationship is evenly split between sex and romance and things like gossip and spa time. We share the same interests such as foreign film, art and fashion. I’ve recently stopped living in denial and realized this is a bit of a problem. Do you think this is the result of me growing up? Would you agree this infatuation with one another is unhealthy? What do you suggest we do?"